1 00:00:02,000 --> 00:00:04,760 This programme contains strong language and adult themes 2 00:00:04,800 --> 00:00:06,560 Previously... This is adorable! 3 00:00:06,600 --> 00:00:08,840 ..the experiment's first honeymoons got under way. 4 00:00:08,880 --> 00:00:11,560 It's really hard for me to open up. While heartfelt honesty... 5 00:00:11,600 --> 00:00:13,640 I deflect to get me through 6 00:00:13,680 --> 00:00:17,120 a difficult period where we lost my brother. 7 00:00:17,160 --> 00:00:19,360 ..led to a breakthrough for Davide and Keye. 8 00:00:19,400 --> 00:00:20,600 This is what I want to see. 9 00:00:20,640 --> 00:00:21,920 You have a beautiful heart. 10 00:00:21,960 --> 00:00:23,480 I like him even more now. 11 00:00:23,520 --> 00:00:25,040 Candid comments from Sarah... 12 00:00:25,080 --> 00:00:28,440 Have you ever been with anyone bigger or anything like that?No. 13 00:00:28,480 --> 00:00:30,600 ..knocked her marriage off course. 14 00:00:30,640 --> 00:00:33,040 I have to be honest, there isn't a spark. 15 00:00:35,280 --> 00:00:39,240 And while for one new couple, there was instant chemistry... 16 00:00:39,280 --> 00:00:43,400 Absolutely stunning. I do fancy him. Tick, tick, tick! 17 00:00:43,440 --> 00:00:45,320 ..an initial lack of attraction... 18 00:00:45,360 --> 00:00:46,840 I wouldn't say he's my type. 19 00:00:47,960 --> 00:00:49,920 ..sent bride Grace spiralling. 20 00:00:54,160 --> 00:00:57,040 Tonight... Right now, he's not putting a foot wrong. 21 00:00:57,080 --> 00:00:59,680 ..Nelly and Steven go from strength to strength... 22 00:00:59,720 --> 00:01:01,440 Exactly what I wanted from a honeymoon. 23 00:01:01,480 --> 00:01:04,560 ..while Ashley's comments continue to trouble Grace. 24 00:01:04,600 --> 00:01:06,720 I said I want a tomboy Barbie. Like, what? 25 00:01:06,760 --> 00:01:08,800 Oh, BLEEP. 26 00:01:08,840 --> 00:01:10,520 Every now and then he just says something 27 00:01:10,560 --> 00:01:12,600 and I think, like, "Do you know how that sounds?" 28 00:01:12,640 --> 00:01:16,280 Sarah's forthright take on how to ignite a spark with Dean... 29 00:01:16,320 --> 00:01:19,040 ..gets some tattoos and loses some weight. 30 00:01:19,080 --> 00:01:20,960 ..combined with demands for honesty... 31 00:01:21,000 --> 00:01:23,200 Would it be any different if I wasn't as big? 32 00:01:23,240 --> 00:01:25,560 Um... ..further tests the couple's marriage. 33 00:01:25,600 --> 00:01:26,640 ..probably. 34 00:01:28,360 --> 00:01:31,360 And as two more brave singles... 35 00:01:31,400 --> 00:01:33,920 I'm scared, but I'm definitely ready. 36 00:01:33,960 --> 00:01:35,880 ..enter the experiment... 37 00:01:35,920 --> 00:01:40,320 Hi! ..one of the brides has serious second thoughts. 38 00:01:40,360 --> 00:01:41,920 Shall we do a cheek? 39 00:01:41,960 --> 00:01:44,440 I don't know if she fancies me now. 40 00:01:44,480 --> 00:01:47,440 BLEEP. I made a mistake. Shit. 41 00:01:47,480 --> 00:01:49,720 BELL TOLLS 42 00:01:53,840 --> 00:01:57,000 How are you feeling today, then, after it's all settled down? 43 00:01:57,040 --> 00:01:59,760 It still feels a bit surreal. I can't believe yesterday happened. 44 00:01:59,800 --> 00:02:02,040 Yeah, it was all a bit of a whirlwind. 45 00:02:02,080 --> 00:02:03,400 It feels really strange, 46 00:02:03,440 --> 00:02:06,400 the whole situation. Like, I'm married. 47 00:02:06,440 --> 00:02:08,920 I don't feel like I really know Grace at all yet. 48 00:02:08,960 --> 00:02:11,320 It's been, what, 10, 12 hours? 49 00:02:11,360 --> 00:02:14,400 I didn't know whether I was coming or going at the wedding. 50 00:02:14,440 --> 00:02:16,400 I am still feeling a little bit overwhelmed. 51 00:02:16,440 --> 00:02:19,440 Ashley and I aren't aligning on certain values 52 00:02:19,480 --> 00:02:23,040 in terms of, he's perhaps more traditional. I'm more liberal. 53 00:02:24,400 --> 00:02:27,480 I was raised like, men are the breadwinners. 54 00:02:28,840 --> 00:02:32,200 At their wedding day, Ashley's old-school values 55 00:02:32,240 --> 00:02:34,040 rang alarm bells for Grace... 56 00:02:34,080 --> 00:02:35,400 God, here we go. 57 00:02:35,440 --> 00:02:37,920 It's 2025, Ashley. 58 00:02:37,960 --> 00:02:40,800 Would you describe yourself as a feminist? 59 00:02:40,840 --> 00:02:42,520 100% no. 60 00:02:42,560 --> 00:02:46,440 ..causing Grace to drastically question her new marriage. 61 00:02:46,480 --> 00:02:49,280 I'm just finding it hard. This is a hard thing to do. 62 00:02:49,320 --> 00:02:52,600 You've had a really emotional, big day. 63 00:02:52,640 --> 00:02:53,720 Oh, God. 64 00:02:57,080 --> 00:03:00,120 It was good to have a sleep and process all of yesterday. 65 00:03:00,160 --> 00:03:02,400 I did spiral, but it's day one. 66 00:03:02,440 --> 00:03:04,480 I'm feeling way more positive 67 00:03:04,520 --> 00:03:07,760 and I'm really keen to just start with that friendship. 68 00:03:07,800 --> 00:03:08,800 Good place to start. 69 00:03:08,840 --> 00:03:10,360 We have nothing but time now 70 00:03:10,400 --> 00:03:13,680 to carry on getting to know each other on honeymoon. Yeah, they say 71 00:03:13,720 --> 00:03:16,080 a holiday either makes or breaks you as well, don't they? 72 00:03:16,120 --> 00:03:19,160 All right, let's go! Let's find out. 73 00:03:19,200 --> 00:03:21,480 I'm massively looking forward to the honeymoon. 74 00:03:21,520 --> 00:03:23,520 I'm looking forward to sort of digging deeper 75 00:03:23,560 --> 00:03:24,760 and getting to know Grace. 76 00:03:24,800 --> 00:03:25,960 We've got an envelope. 77 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:28,640 I'm hoping that she starts to kind of soften to me 78 00:03:28,680 --> 00:03:30,080 and that she does like me. 79 00:03:30,120 --> 00:03:31,320 Do you want to do the honours? 80 00:03:31,360 --> 00:03:32,960 No, you go for it. Go for it. 81 00:03:33,000 --> 00:03:35,080 "Grace and Ashley, congratulations. 82 00:03:35,120 --> 00:03:38,880 "Now it's time for you to go on your honeymoon in Koh Samui." 83 00:03:38,920 --> 00:03:41,920 Oh, awesome. That's so good! 84 00:03:41,960 --> 00:03:45,280 I'm chuffed about that, to be honest. Yeah. Me too. 85 00:03:45,320 --> 00:03:46,480 Thailand! Woohoo! 86 00:03:48,560 --> 00:03:50,000 I'm well up for that, I can't wait. 87 00:03:50,040 --> 00:03:52,360 Cheers. Can you "cheers" tea, coffee? Let's do it. 88 00:03:52,400 --> 00:03:53,800 I'm actually over the moon. 89 00:03:57,480 --> 00:03:59,520 Didn't feel like I had to sleep like a pencil last night. 90 00:03:59,560 --> 00:04:00,880 You're very respectful. 91 00:04:00,920 --> 00:04:04,360 We were both in our own lanes as such, so yeah, thank you. 92 00:04:04,400 --> 00:04:07,840 I...I've got respect for you being like that anyway. Yeah. 93 00:04:07,880 --> 00:04:09,680 If anything, it makes me like you a little bit more. 94 00:04:15,440 --> 00:04:17,400 OK. It's like, you're not that person. 95 00:04:17,440 --> 00:04:19,200 What if I was that person? 96 00:04:20,240 --> 00:04:22,680 Um, well... Would that be an issue, do you think? 97 00:04:23,840 --> 00:04:26,080 Old school morals and people that respect themselves. 98 00:04:26,120 --> 00:04:28,160 That is something that I asked for. Yeah. 99 00:04:28,200 --> 00:04:30,840 It is, it is, um, it is quite important to me. 100 00:04:30,880 --> 00:04:32,000 Yeah. So, yeah. OK. 101 00:04:36,520 --> 00:04:38,600 Big no for me - double standards. 102 00:04:39,720 --> 00:04:42,240 You can probably respect yourself 103 00:04:42,280 --> 00:04:44,440 and if you want to be the kind of person 104 00:04:44,480 --> 00:04:48,160 that engages in those activities, that's probably OK, too. 105 00:04:48,200 --> 00:04:50,280 Yeah, but you're not that person. 106 00:04:50,320 --> 00:04:52,880 You've made that quite clear, so... 107 00:04:52,920 --> 00:04:54,800 OK. It's, er... Yeah. 108 00:04:56,320 --> 00:04:58,120 I feel like everything I'm doing is wrong. 109 00:04:59,320 --> 00:05:00,880 It's taken me back a bit. 110 00:05:02,200 --> 00:05:05,800 I don't know why it went to that when I was giving a compliment. 111 00:05:05,840 --> 00:05:07,640 Cool. 112 00:05:13,600 --> 00:05:16,880 I'm just a little bit concerned that Ashley might be, like, 113 00:05:16,920 --> 00:05:19,280 set in his ways in his opinions of women. 114 00:05:19,320 --> 00:05:22,280 I kind of, maybe naively, 115 00:05:22,320 --> 00:05:25,560 hoped that we'd be a bit more aligned. 116 00:05:25,600 --> 00:05:27,200 It's really important to me. 117 00:05:30,960 --> 00:05:34,680 I'm just like, really, like... I just feel like I shouldn't be going. 118 00:05:34,720 --> 00:05:36,320 I'm just like, am I stupid to go? 119 00:05:36,360 --> 00:05:37,400 Should I not just... 120 00:05:40,880 --> 00:05:43,400 INTERVIEWER: 121 00:05:44,640 --> 00:05:46,120 I wish I could snap out of it. 122 00:05:46,160 --> 00:05:48,520 I'm just feeling really overwhelmed and really anxious. 123 00:05:48,560 --> 00:05:51,480 This is a lot harder than I anticipated. 124 00:06:06,240 --> 00:06:08,360 Look at this. Oh, my God. 125 00:06:09,600 --> 00:06:11,840 I've never stayed in somewhere so nice. 126 00:06:11,880 --> 00:06:13,320 It's gorgeous. 127 00:06:13,360 --> 00:06:15,760 You can't say no to a chocolate-covered strawb. 128 00:06:17,080 --> 00:06:18,600 OK. 129 00:06:18,640 --> 00:06:20,480 Being on honeymoon with Steven, I just feel really happy. 130 00:06:20,520 --> 00:06:22,640 It kind of feels like we've known each other for ages. 131 00:06:22,680 --> 00:06:24,520 Like, we don't really feel like strangers. 132 00:06:24,560 --> 00:06:27,880 Oh, stunning. honeymoon suite. 133 00:06:27,920 --> 00:06:30,760 Do we actually need to leave the room? I think not. 134 00:06:33,360 --> 00:06:36,600 Since the wedding, the feeling there is just growing. 135 00:06:36,640 --> 00:06:38,800 It's definitely exceeded my expectations, 136 00:06:38,840 --> 00:06:41,720 the whole journey so far. So, yeah, at this moment in time, 137 00:06:41,760 --> 00:06:43,840 I think Nelly and I are a perfect match. 138 00:06:47,160 --> 00:06:51,760 It's insane how well suited we are. Honestly, I'm having the best time. 139 00:06:51,800 --> 00:06:53,640 It's exactly what I wanted from a honeymoon. 140 00:06:53,680 --> 00:06:54,840 It's amazing. 141 00:07:06,400 --> 00:07:07,440 Ah. 142 00:07:11,640 --> 00:07:13,920 My guard feels up a little bit today. 143 00:07:13,960 --> 00:07:15,480 I am starting to feel a little bit rejected. 144 00:07:15,520 --> 00:07:17,280 I think last night was the first time I thought 145 00:07:17,320 --> 00:07:20,160 it's probably not going as well as I thought it was going. 146 00:07:20,200 --> 00:07:21,760 What was your first reaction when, like, 147 00:07:21,800 --> 00:07:23,640 obviously I turned around and you was walking down? 148 00:07:23,680 --> 00:07:26,600 You weren't, sort of looks-wise, what I was expecting. 149 00:07:28,520 --> 00:07:30,720 Have you ever been with anyone big or anything? What's your usual type? 150 00:07:30,760 --> 00:07:32,560 Have I been with anyone... Anyone who's, like, bigger 151 00:07:32,600 --> 00:07:33,680 or anything like that, yeah? 152 00:07:33,720 --> 00:07:35,560 No, I have to admit, no. 153 00:07:39,160 --> 00:07:41,880 Last night was the first time I've probably felt anxious 154 00:07:41,920 --> 00:07:43,440 within this whole experience. 155 00:07:43,480 --> 00:07:45,280 So it was just a weird place to be in. 156 00:07:45,320 --> 00:07:48,040 Kind of left me feeling empty. I didn't like it. 157 00:07:48,080 --> 00:07:49,160 But I woke up this morning. 158 00:07:49,200 --> 00:07:51,960 I'm feeling better and, like, kind of ready to just have fun again. 159 00:07:52,000 --> 00:07:53,560 Have you been cuddling any pillows? 160 00:07:53,600 --> 00:07:55,360 No, I've not been cuddling any pillows. 161 00:07:55,400 --> 00:07:58,320 I've kind of stopped that now. I'm waiting for the real thing. 162 00:08:01,960 --> 00:08:05,440 Dean is looking for more affection from myself, 163 00:08:05,480 --> 00:08:07,920 but for me, I'm just not there yet. 164 00:08:07,960 --> 00:08:12,480 No. Dean has not made any move, which is fine by me. 165 00:08:14,360 --> 00:08:16,080 He can't hear me, can he? OK. 166 00:08:17,440 --> 00:08:19,520 I normally share my bed with my dog every night. 167 00:08:19,560 --> 00:08:22,280 Oh, fair. So I'm used to... So I'm like a dog. That's nice. 168 00:08:22,320 --> 00:08:23,480 Is it because I'm "ruff"? 169 00:08:23,520 --> 00:08:24,520 HE LAUGHS 170 00:08:24,560 --> 00:08:25,720 Ruff, ruff! 171 00:08:25,760 --> 00:08:28,680 A dog. A dog barks. Did you just bark? 172 00:08:33,000 --> 00:08:35,320 Dean barking in bed this morning, 173 00:08:35,360 --> 00:08:36,920 it makes me feel a bit uncomfortable. 174 00:08:36,960 --> 00:08:39,040 He's obviously stopped the rapping 175 00:08:39,080 --> 00:08:40,960 and the random outbursts of song 176 00:08:41,000 --> 00:08:44,320 has now been replaced with animal sounds. Woof! 177 00:08:44,360 --> 00:08:47,640 Er, yeah. Don't do that. 178 00:08:47,680 --> 00:08:48,720 Woof! 179 00:08:52,800 --> 00:08:55,000 Cheers! To us newlyweds. 180 00:08:55,040 --> 00:08:57,000 Whilst this year's first three couples 181 00:08:57,040 --> 00:08:59,240 get to know each other on their honeymoons... 182 00:09:01,680 --> 00:09:06,360 ..in the UK, another brave single is about to enter the experiment. 183 00:09:06,400 --> 00:09:08,080 I've just looked at the camera. Fuck! 184 00:09:08,120 --> 00:09:09,800 Ugh! 185 00:09:09,840 --> 00:09:12,960 Wait. Start again, start again, start again. 186 00:09:13,000 --> 00:09:15,480 OK, ready. OK, is it recording now? 187 00:09:17,320 --> 00:09:19,680 At work, I'm like a powerhouse. 188 00:09:20,760 --> 00:09:22,120 Got to get shit done. 189 00:09:23,960 --> 00:09:25,640 Hello, are you all right? I'm good, how are you? 190 00:09:25,680 --> 00:09:26,920 Yeah, I'm good, thanks. 191 00:09:26,960 --> 00:09:29,080 I'm a consultant in the construction industry. 192 00:09:29,120 --> 00:09:30,440 Let's jump on a Teams call 193 00:09:30,480 --> 00:09:33,880 and then get you booked in for a site survey and go from there. 194 00:09:33,920 --> 00:09:35,320 I'm a masculine energy, 195 00:09:35,360 --> 00:09:37,480 then I've got, like, a really girlie side as well. 196 00:09:39,160 --> 00:09:43,040 Definitely say I'm spiritual. I love meditation. 197 00:09:43,080 --> 00:09:46,800 One year I was in Thailand, and I lived with the monks. 198 00:09:46,840 --> 00:09:49,680 You're not allowed to speak. That was hard for me. 199 00:09:51,760 --> 00:09:55,480 Already, I can see you are, uh, ironic. 200 00:09:55,520 --> 00:09:57,120 I think you meant iconic. 201 00:09:57,160 --> 00:09:59,120 No. I'm joking, I'm joking. 202 00:10:01,360 --> 00:10:04,200 They're going to have to be strong-minded, 203 00:10:04,240 --> 00:10:07,200 because you're quite strong and know what you want. 204 00:10:07,240 --> 00:10:09,240 You're making me sound like an absolute control freak. 205 00:10:09,280 --> 00:10:11,400 No, you've just got your shit together. 206 00:10:11,440 --> 00:10:12,760 That's a better way of putting it. 207 00:10:14,320 --> 00:10:20,440 I dated men until I was 25, and I now also date women as well. 208 00:10:20,480 --> 00:10:22,720 I never was one of these people in the closet 209 00:10:22,760 --> 00:10:24,520 or, like, knew I had these feelings. 210 00:10:24,560 --> 00:10:26,160 I literally kissed a girl and liked it. 211 00:10:26,200 --> 00:10:29,480 I was Katy Perry woman, I swear to God. 212 00:10:29,520 --> 00:10:31,760 Long story short, I was in a hot tub with her 213 00:10:31,800 --> 00:10:33,640 and I could see the way she was looking at me and I thought, 214 00:10:33,680 --> 00:10:35,400 "Oh, my God, she fancies me." 215 00:10:35,440 --> 00:10:37,280 She tried to kiss me and we just started snogging 216 00:10:37,320 --> 00:10:39,120 and we was kissing for ages. 217 00:10:39,160 --> 00:10:40,720 And then I thought the next day, 218 00:10:40,760 --> 00:10:42,440 I was like, "Oh, my God, am I a lesbian?" 219 00:10:45,080 --> 00:10:49,240 That girl became my first girlfriend 220 00:10:49,280 --> 00:10:51,240 and I ended up being with her for, like, a year. 221 00:10:51,280 --> 00:10:53,200 And then my last actual relationship, 222 00:10:53,240 --> 00:10:57,160 which was three years ago now, we were thinking of marriage. 223 00:10:57,200 --> 00:10:59,080 Coming away from that was hard. 224 00:10:59,120 --> 00:11:00,800 Definitely thought I'd found the one, yeah. 225 00:11:02,600 --> 00:11:06,680 What was missing for you not to remain in those relationships? 226 00:11:06,720 --> 00:11:10,080 I think I had to learn a lot to compromise as I got older. 227 00:11:10,120 --> 00:11:13,320 Like, I can be a control freak, but I hold my hands up with that. 228 00:11:13,360 --> 00:11:17,520 Typically, when people assert a lot of control in a relationship, 229 00:11:17,560 --> 00:11:20,640 they tend to have vulnerability challenges. 230 00:11:20,680 --> 00:11:25,040 Oh, yeah, 100%. But I'm willing to be completely vulnerable here. 231 00:11:25,080 --> 00:11:28,440 How do I know that? Because I've just told you. 232 00:11:28,480 --> 00:11:29,520 OK. 233 00:11:31,840 --> 00:11:32,880 Isn't that weird? 234 00:11:32,920 --> 00:11:35,160 The next time I'm going to see you is at the wedding. 235 00:11:35,200 --> 00:11:36,640 What do you think about me doing it? 236 00:11:36,680 --> 00:11:37,880 You're absolutely nuts. 237 00:11:39,280 --> 00:11:41,280 Family is so important for me. 238 00:11:41,320 --> 00:11:43,480 How do the veils go? On your head. 239 00:11:43,520 --> 00:11:44,720 LEAH LAUGHS 240 00:11:44,760 --> 00:11:48,320 My nan is one of my best friends. I look like Minnie Mouse! 241 00:11:48,360 --> 00:11:52,080 Get it off! You look nice. No, that's not how it goes. 242 00:11:52,120 --> 00:11:54,320 Me and my nan are so similar. We know what we like. 243 00:11:54,360 --> 00:11:56,520 We know what we don't like. 244 00:11:56,560 --> 00:11:58,720 Would you like me to show you my wedding photo? 245 00:11:58,760 --> 00:12:01,120 Have you got one? Yeah. Let me see. 246 00:12:01,160 --> 00:12:03,560 My mum and dad and my nan and grandad, 247 00:12:03,600 --> 00:12:06,160 they've all shaped the way I view marriage. 248 00:12:06,200 --> 00:12:07,760 I'm so lucky to be surrounded 249 00:12:07,800 --> 00:12:10,400 by relationships that have just worked. 250 00:12:10,440 --> 00:12:12,520 I don't think I've ever seen you on your wedding day, you know. 251 00:12:12,560 --> 00:12:14,680 Well, you wouldn't have done. You weren't born. 252 00:12:14,720 --> 00:12:16,400 THEY LAUGH 253 00:12:18,960 --> 00:12:23,720 My ideal person would be emotionally intelligent, driven. 254 00:12:23,760 --> 00:12:25,760 It's so important for me. 255 00:12:25,800 --> 00:12:28,360 that this person is family-orientated. 256 00:12:28,400 --> 00:12:31,960 Looks-wise, I always go for a girlie girl. 257 00:12:32,000 --> 00:12:33,720 Nice eyes, nice teeth. 258 00:12:33,760 --> 00:12:36,280 Someone who takes care of themselves. 259 00:12:36,320 --> 00:12:38,320 That energy where it just draws you in 260 00:12:38,360 --> 00:12:40,640 and you just instantly feel a connection. 261 00:12:41,800 --> 00:12:44,040 I have never really been this open 262 00:12:44,080 --> 00:12:47,520 to be taken out of my comfort zone, and I'm ready to take it on. 263 00:12:48,840 --> 00:12:50,720 Leigh interview, take one. 264 00:12:50,760 --> 00:12:52,400 Oh, God, that was so bad. 265 00:12:55,720 --> 00:12:57,440 I do definitely take pride in my appearance. 266 00:12:57,480 --> 00:12:59,040 I think I've been that way since I was young. 267 00:12:59,080 --> 00:13:00,360 I remember being, like, six years old 268 00:13:00,400 --> 00:13:02,400 and my nan teaching me how to put lipstick on. 269 00:13:04,200 --> 00:13:06,960 I definitely am a really, like, feminine, girlie girl. 270 00:13:07,000 --> 00:13:10,680 I always love to get my hair done, get my nails done. 271 00:13:10,720 --> 00:13:12,760 People used to joke about me that I'm always dressed up, 272 00:13:12,800 --> 00:13:14,400 even just to go to the shop. 273 00:13:14,440 --> 00:13:17,720 I live in Essex, so, I mean, the majority of the girls do. 274 00:13:19,080 --> 00:13:20,840 When people first meet me, 275 00:13:20,880 --> 00:13:23,080 they assume I'm going to be a little bit of an airhead. 276 00:13:23,120 --> 00:13:24,160 I'm not at all. 277 00:13:24,200 --> 00:13:27,040 I'm not just my eyelashes and fake tan. 278 00:13:27,080 --> 00:13:28,520 I'm a lot deeper than that. 279 00:13:28,560 --> 00:13:30,480 I'd say I am quite a spiritual person. 280 00:13:30,520 --> 00:13:33,560 I like my crystals and the energy that they give off. 281 00:13:33,600 --> 00:13:35,760 I've got ten rose quartz at home, 282 00:13:35,800 --> 00:13:40,400 trying to flood the love towards me in hopes that it will work. 283 00:13:40,440 --> 00:13:44,280 Currently, I work in a GP surgery, doing clinical coding. 284 00:13:44,320 --> 00:13:47,240 I love my job, but it's definitely not something I want to do 285 00:13:47,280 --> 00:13:50,000 for the rest of my life. I found what my passion was. 286 00:13:50,040 --> 00:13:52,760 I realised that I really want to help people, 287 00:13:52,800 --> 00:13:56,440 so I'm now doing a degree in counselling. 288 00:13:56,480 --> 00:13:58,400 I think you need a little trim on the ends. 289 00:13:58,440 --> 00:14:01,280 Not too much, though, Mum. I am getting married. 290 00:14:01,320 --> 00:14:04,400 I know. Being single and living with your mum 291 00:14:04,440 --> 00:14:07,080 isn't always the most ideal, let's be honest. 292 00:14:07,120 --> 00:14:10,080 You know, if you want to bring someone home...bit awkward. 293 00:14:10,120 --> 00:14:14,640 Single life in Romford...awful. 294 00:14:14,680 --> 00:14:16,240 Everyone assumes I'm straight. 295 00:14:16,280 --> 00:14:19,560 It's always, "Have you got a husband or have you got a boyfriend?" 296 00:14:19,600 --> 00:14:22,720 No, I haven't. I haven't got a girlfriend or a wife either. 297 00:14:22,760 --> 00:14:24,840 You definitely want to find love and settle down. 298 00:14:24,880 --> 00:14:28,000 Yeah. I feel like, I'm 30 now. Everyone around me's settled. 299 00:14:28,040 --> 00:14:30,400 Yeah. You found your fiance. You've got kids. 300 00:14:30,440 --> 00:14:32,840 And let's be honest, my love life hasn't been great. 301 00:14:32,880 --> 00:14:34,360 I do feel very protective. 302 00:14:34,400 --> 00:14:38,280 I never want you to get hurt again the way you was before. Yeah. 303 00:14:41,600 --> 00:14:43,960 I have been engaged before. 304 00:14:44,000 --> 00:14:46,480 Thought I was going to continue and get married 305 00:14:46,520 --> 00:14:48,280 and have kids and all of that lovely stuff. 306 00:14:48,320 --> 00:14:50,640 But it just didn't work out that way. 307 00:14:50,680 --> 00:14:53,840 It was hard, the hardest thing I've ever been through. 308 00:14:56,920 --> 00:15:00,920 I saw my life with this person that then got taken away, 309 00:15:00,960 --> 00:15:03,480 and it was a really hard pill to swallow. 310 00:15:03,520 --> 00:15:05,520 When you think about this experiment, 311 00:15:05,560 --> 00:15:07,960 do you believe there will be any area 312 00:15:08,000 --> 00:15:10,240 that you personally struggle in? 313 00:15:10,280 --> 00:15:12,320 I think letting myself be vulnerable. 314 00:15:12,360 --> 00:15:13,400 If somebody was getting 315 00:15:13,440 --> 00:15:17,960 a little bit too comfortable with me, I've sort of shut it off. 316 00:15:18,000 --> 00:15:20,480 Are you prepared to emotionally attach? 317 00:15:20,520 --> 00:15:22,520 I think naturally now, my guard is up, 318 00:15:22,560 --> 00:15:24,840 but I'm willing to go in both feet. 319 00:15:24,880 --> 00:15:26,600 I'm serious about wanting it to work. 320 00:15:26,640 --> 00:15:29,960 I see it. I can see that you're very serious about this. 321 00:15:32,680 --> 00:15:33,880 I definitely am wanting 322 00:15:33,920 --> 00:15:36,480 to find something and wanting to find love. 323 00:15:36,520 --> 00:15:39,480 Mum, what do you think? 324 00:15:39,520 --> 00:15:41,600 Are you emotional? 325 00:15:41,640 --> 00:15:45,040 Oh, Mum, don't, cos you're going to make me cry! 326 00:15:45,080 --> 00:15:46,720 I really just hope that this wedding 327 00:15:46,760 --> 00:15:49,000 will be everything that you dreamed it would be. 328 00:15:49,040 --> 00:15:51,480 You deserve it. Oh, thanks, Mum. 329 00:15:52,640 --> 00:15:57,600 The perfect wife would be family-orientated, 330 00:15:57,640 --> 00:16:02,000 open to spirituality, works hard, has goals set. 331 00:16:02,040 --> 00:16:05,480 Quite a masculine-presenting woman, 332 00:16:05,520 --> 00:16:07,800 but still feminine to some degree. 333 00:16:07,840 --> 00:16:11,840 I like women for a reason, so I want them to feel like a woman. 334 00:16:11,880 --> 00:16:14,040 I've been engaged. I just hope that this time, 335 00:16:14,080 --> 00:16:16,280 I make it down the aisle and meet the love of my life. 336 00:16:18,400 --> 00:16:20,640 Now, this is a fascinating match. 337 00:16:20,680 --> 00:16:22,800 There are a lot of shared values with these two, 338 00:16:22,840 --> 00:16:25,320 and both have a steeliness to their character. 339 00:16:25,360 --> 00:16:27,600 Leigh doesn't pull her punches, 340 00:16:27,640 --> 00:16:30,640 but Leah also said she wants someone headstrong 341 00:16:30,680 --> 00:16:32,440 who will keep her on her toes. 342 00:16:32,480 --> 00:16:34,840 Leah will be drawn to Leigh's femininity, 343 00:16:34,880 --> 00:16:38,520 while Leigh will appreciate her bride's masculine energy. 344 00:16:38,560 --> 00:16:41,600 If they connect, this could be an amazing partnership. 345 00:16:41,640 --> 00:16:45,080 I agree. Leah comes across as a tough cookie, 346 00:16:45,120 --> 00:16:47,800 exuding strength and confidence. 347 00:16:47,840 --> 00:16:50,200 Her challenge is vulnerability. 348 00:16:50,240 --> 00:16:52,400 Leigh is quite a deep thinker, 349 00:16:52,440 --> 00:16:53,440 so she won't be afraid 350 00:16:53,480 --> 00:16:56,720 to explore Leah's softer, less obvious side. 351 00:16:56,760 --> 00:16:59,760 Both these brides are very driven at work, 352 00:16:59,800 --> 00:17:02,160 but they also value spirituality, 353 00:17:02,200 --> 00:17:05,760 and family is hugely important to them. 354 00:17:05,800 --> 00:17:08,600 They have close bonds to their nearest and dearest, 355 00:17:08,640 --> 00:17:10,720 and both prioritise thoughtfulness 356 00:17:10,760 --> 00:17:13,760 and emotional connection in their relationships. 357 00:17:13,800 --> 00:17:16,720 I think they might just meet their match 358 00:17:16,760 --> 00:17:17,880 in more ways than one. 359 00:17:17,920 --> 00:17:20,800 Leigh and Leah. 360 00:17:34,280 --> 00:17:35,280 CORK POPS 361 00:17:35,320 --> 00:17:36,920 THEY CHEER 362 00:17:36,960 --> 00:17:38,880 I can't believe I'm getting married today. 363 00:17:38,920 --> 00:17:40,200 It feels very surreal. 364 00:17:40,240 --> 00:17:41,360 I've been engaged before, 365 00:17:41,400 --> 00:17:42,440 so there's been moments 366 00:17:42,480 --> 00:17:44,880 where I thought that this was going to come, and it never did. 367 00:17:44,920 --> 00:17:48,400 But we're here. We're actually here. How do you feel this morning? 368 00:17:48,440 --> 00:17:51,000 I feel like it's going to go well. I've got a good feeling. 369 00:17:51,040 --> 00:17:53,200 I actually think it's because I've brought my crystals. 370 00:17:53,240 --> 00:17:57,520 I thought about, in the ceremony, maybe giving her one. 371 00:17:57,560 --> 00:17:59,040 Well, yeah. Because it means so much to you, 372 00:17:59,080 --> 00:18:01,480 you want to be able to share that with somebody else. 373 00:18:01,520 --> 00:18:05,760 Yeah, definitely. I think it will be a nice way to solidify our bond. 374 00:18:05,800 --> 00:18:07,280 It represents love and healing. 375 00:18:07,320 --> 00:18:09,600 It's either going to go well or it's going to go really badly, 376 00:18:09,640 --> 00:18:11,680 because I'll be able to tell from her face if she thinks, 377 00:18:11,720 --> 00:18:12,800 "What are you doing?" 378 00:18:16,240 --> 00:18:17,880 SHE SQUEALS 379 00:18:17,920 --> 00:18:20,760 I actually can't believe today's the big day. 380 00:18:20,800 --> 00:18:23,360 It's now starting to hit me a little bit, I think. 381 00:18:23,400 --> 00:18:25,440 Last night, I was lying in bed on my own. 382 00:18:25,480 --> 00:18:27,840 I was thinking, "What am I actually doing?" 383 00:18:27,880 --> 00:18:30,120 And then all the nice messages started coming through 384 00:18:30,160 --> 00:18:33,520 from, like, all you lot and my nan sent me a lovely message as well, 385 00:18:33,560 --> 00:18:34,960 and then I started crying. 386 00:18:35,000 --> 00:18:37,040 Did you cry? Yeah, I cried. I was crying in bed. 387 00:18:37,080 --> 00:18:38,240 I just want to see that moment 388 00:18:38,280 --> 00:18:41,640 when you both see each other and just your first reactions. 389 00:18:41,680 --> 00:18:44,240 I hope she's just got nice teeth, like a nice smile. 390 00:18:44,280 --> 00:18:45,400 Like, a smiley person. 391 00:18:45,440 --> 00:18:46,840 And what about her personality? 392 00:18:46,880 --> 00:18:49,360 I hope she's got the same open mind as me, really. Yeah. 393 00:18:51,160 --> 00:18:54,280 Who would be, like your dream wife to be? 394 00:18:54,320 --> 00:19:00,040 So I think masc, but not too masc. 395 00:19:00,080 --> 00:19:04,160 And not too femme, but not a stem. 396 00:19:04,200 --> 00:19:07,320 Stem is somebody that's a mix between a femme and a masc, 397 00:19:07,360 --> 00:19:08,400 so a bit in between. 398 00:19:08,440 --> 00:19:10,040 If someone hears me say this, 399 00:19:10,080 --> 00:19:11,120 they're going to be like, 400 00:19:11,160 --> 00:19:12,880 "So what exactly is it that you're looking for?" 401 00:19:12,920 --> 00:19:15,160 Yeah. And it's really hard to explain. 402 00:19:15,200 --> 00:19:17,720 Like, it's that masculine energy for me, 403 00:19:17,760 --> 00:19:19,800 and that's got nothing to do with looks. 404 00:19:19,840 --> 00:19:21,360 It's all about how they carry theirself. 405 00:19:21,400 --> 00:19:25,360 If that's not there, I'll struggle with that. 406 00:19:25,400 --> 00:19:28,000 Did you always think you'd be marrying a woman today? 407 00:19:28,040 --> 00:19:29,960 I've always been open to both, haven't I, 408 00:19:30,000 --> 00:19:32,080 but I'm definitely more comfortable with a woman now. 409 00:19:32,120 --> 00:19:34,840 You're more of the masculine energy in the relationship, 410 00:19:34,880 --> 00:19:39,200 so maybe that's why you're more suited to a feminine energy. 411 00:19:39,240 --> 00:19:42,200 Sometimes when I date guys... Too similar. ..I'm too similar. 412 00:19:42,240 --> 00:19:44,640 Two alpha males in the room. Yeah. 413 00:19:44,680 --> 00:19:49,200 You've got a bit of a feisty side. Would you like her to be like that? 414 00:19:49,240 --> 00:19:51,280 I'd like her to be headstrong. 415 00:19:51,320 --> 00:19:52,960 That might mean that at certain times, 416 00:19:53,000 --> 00:19:55,160 if I've got a strong opinion and she's got a strong opinion, 417 00:19:55,200 --> 00:19:57,920 we might butt heads, but then I think that's a good thing. 418 00:19:57,960 --> 00:19:59,480 It's just a team effort. 419 00:19:59,520 --> 00:20:02,960 Just be yourself, and whatever will be, will be. 420 00:20:05,640 --> 00:20:09,080 I feel like I'm going to get emotional. Sorry. 421 00:20:09,120 --> 00:20:11,560 God. Wow, that's come out of nowhere. 422 00:20:11,600 --> 00:20:12,640 Um... 423 00:20:14,920 --> 00:20:19,400 Yeah, I think I've just seen how you are as a person, 424 00:20:19,440 --> 00:20:21,560 like, with everyone that you care about. 425 00:20:21,600 --> 00:20:23,440 That's the type of relationship that I want, 426 00:20:23,480 --> 00:20:26,880 is to be like the person that you are to my partner. 427 00:20:26,920 --> 00:20:27,960 Sorry. 428 00:20:29,840 --> 00:20:30,880 Yeah. 429 00:20:32,040 --> 00:20:35,400 Leigh really does deserve to meet someone nice. 430 00:20:35,440 --> 00:20:37,200 She's been unlucky in love, 431 00:20:37,240 --> 00:20:40,800 so I really hope this works for her this time. 432 00:20:40,840 --> 00:20:42,280 You'll make me cry again. 433 00:20:44,760 --> 00:20:45,800 Love you. 434 00:20:52,640 --> 00:20:54,960 You look beautiful, babe. 435 00:21:00,120 --> 00:21:01,200 Oh, stop! 436 00:21:01,240 --> 00:21:03,360 I can't help it. Sorry! 437 00:21:03,400 --> 00:21:05,560 You know what I'm like. 438 00:21:05,600 --> 00:21:08,720 Leah means a hell of a lot to me. 439 00:21:08,760 --> 00:21:11,040 I'm so proud. 440 00:21:11,080 --> 00:21:14,560 In fact, it gave me a tear to see her. 441 00:21:14,600 --> 00:21:16,320 It was beautiful. 442 00:21:16,360 --> 00:21:19,760 If she finds somebody that really, really loves her... 443 00:21:21,920 --> 00:21:23,000 ..I'll be made up. 444 00:21:42,440 --> 00:21:43,480 Flowers are nice. 445 00:21:44,600 --> 00:21:45,640 Lovely. 446 00:21:55,720 --> 00:21:58,000 This feels like the biggest day of my life. 447 00:21:59,840 --> 00:22:02,760 I'm scared, but I'm definitely ready. 448 00:22:02,800 --> 00:22:05,200 I want someone who's going to challenge me 449 00:22:05,240 --> 00:22:06,920 and push me to be my best self. 450 00:22:08,480 --> 00:22:11,480 I'm ready to give everything to that person. 451 00:22:17,160 --> 00:22:18,640 Hello. Gorgeous. 452 00:22:19,680 --> 00:22:20,720 Wow. 453 00:22:30,440 --> 00:22:32,080 What am I doing? I'm mad. 454 00:22:37,760 --> 00:22:40,160 I definitely feel like the universe has led me here. 455 00:22:41,680 --> 00:22:45,520 I want to be able to trust someone and rely on somebody. 456 00:22:47,040 --> 00:22:48,240 I am treading carefully. 457 00:22:48,280 --> 00:22:50,720 But I'm going into this and I'm giving it my all. 458 00:22:53,080 --> 00:22:55,880 I want someone to love me for me. 459 00:23:19,880 --> 00:23:22,280 Hi. Hi! You OK? 460 00:23:22,320 --> 00:23:23,600 Hi. 461 00:23:24,840 --> 00:23:27,720 I feel like we're both just as nervous as each other. 462 00:23:27,760 --> 00:23:29,800 I'm actually all right. I'm excited. 463 00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:35,520 She's definitely a bit of me. She's pretty. 464 00:23:35,560 --> 00:23:38,200 Nice hair, nice teeth, nice eyes. 465 00:23:38,240 --> 00:23:39,480 So, yeah, tick, tick, tick. 466 00:23:39,520 --> 00:23:40,720 What's your name? Leah. 467 00:23:40,760 --> 00:23:43,400 What's your name? Leigh. You're Leigh? Yeah. No. 468 00:23:43,440 --> 00:23:45,200 LAUGHTER 469 00:23:45,240 --> 00:23:48,240 Leigh and Leah. Perfect. 470 00:23:48,280 --> 00:23:50,680 Are you OK? Yeah. You? Good. 471 00:23:52,040 --> 00:23:53,280 Ooh! 472 00:23:54,680 --> 00:23:56,440 VOICEOVER: She's absolutely stunning. 473 00:24:00,200 --> 00:24:01,560 But... 474 00:24:01,600 --> 00:24:04,760 ..I'm not sure if she does have a masculine side. 475 00:24:04,800 --> 00:24:07,200 So, am I going to fancy her? 476 00:24:07,240 --> 00:24:10,200 And in this moment, I don't feel like I do. 477 00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:11,640 Shit. 478 00:24:18,360 --> 00:24:21,560 Hello, everyone, and a huge warm welcome. 479 00:24:22,720 --> 00:24:25,600 Can I ask you to please read your vows to Leah? 480 00:24:27,280 --> 00:24:29,920 As we stand here today as strangers about to embark 481 00:24:29,960 --> 00:24:33,120 on probably one of the craziest journeys we've ever been on, 482 00:24:33,160 --> 00:24:36,000 I trust that the universe has led us both here today for a reason, 483 00:24:36,040 --> 00:24:37,840 and I truly believe that right here, right now, 484 00:24:37,880 --> 00:24:39,640 we're exactly where we're supposed to be. 485 00:24:41,520 --> 00:24:43,320 I hope that whilst growing our bond, we can be a team, 486 00:24:43,360 --> 00:24:45,120 one that inspires each other to be our best selves, 487 00:24:45,160 --> 00:24:47,240 but know that we have each other's backs 488 00:24:47,280 --> 00:24:49,160 on the days when life isn't as kind. 489 00:24:50,920 --> 00:24:52,920 And last but not least, I can't wait to discover 490 00:24:52,960 --> 00:24:56,120 the reasons that we've been so divinely placed together. 491 00:24:56,160 --> 00:24:57,520 Before I wrap this up... 492 00:25:01,280 --> 00:25:05,000 Oh, thank you. ..I just wanted to give you this rose quartz, 493 00:25:05,040 --> 00:25:06,560 and I hope that it will enable us 494 00:25:06,600 --> 00:25:08,640 to build a loving and healing connection 495 00:25:08,680 --> 00:25:10,200 and one that enhances our bond 496 00:25:10,240 --> 00:25:12,680 and brings peace on the days when you need it. Thank you. 497 00:25:16,320 --> 00:25:17,320 Yes. Thanks. 498 00:25:19,000 --> 00:25:20,760 Did she just call my crystal a stone? 499 00:25:24,120 --> 00:25:27,440 Maybe she's not as into spirituality as I am. 500 00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:33,400 I manifested change, 501 00:25:33,440 --> 00:25:35,600 but never imagined the risk we're about to explore. 502 00:25:36,760 --> 00:25:39,360 Whether it's a connection of love that lasts until the end, 503 00:25:39,400 --> 00:25:41,240 or something that takes us out of our comfort zone 504 00:25:41,280 --> 00:25:42,720 and spins us on our head... 505 00:25:42,760 --> 00:25:45,840 VOICEOVER: Fucking hell. I'm a bit apprehensive. 506 00:25:45,880 --> 00:25:51,360 She is not what I normally go for, and I'm worried I made a mistake. 507 00:25:51,400 --> 00:25:55,040 All I can say is, I promise to be vulnerable, honest and true. 508 00:25:55,080 --> 00:25:57,280 And I'm excited for this journey of me and you. 509 00:25:57,320 --> 00:25:59,240 APPLAUSE 510 00:26:02,000 --> 00:26:05,480 I give you this ring as a symbol of my commitment to this marriage 511 00:26:05,520 --> 00:26:07,480 and my faith in this relationship. 512 00:26:09,240 --> 00:26:12,560 I give you this ring of my intention to respect and support you 513 00:26:12,600 --> 00:26:14,520 and my faith in this relationship. 514 00:26:16,840 --> 00:26:20,040 And I would now like to invite you to give each other a kiss. 515 00:26:26,280 --> 00:26:27,320 Shall we do a cheek? 516 00:26:30,560 --> 00:26:31,600 We've just met! 517 00:26:31,640 --> 00:26:33,400 LAUGHTER 518 00:26:33,440 --> 00:26:38,640 And it is a pleasure to present you as wife and wife. 519 00:26:38,680 --> 00:26:40,320 CHEERING 520 00:26:41,800 --> 00:26:43,880 I actually can't believe I married a stranger. 521 00:26:43,920 --> 00:26:46,600 She's so attractive. Absolutely gorgeous. 522 00:26:46,640 --> 00:26:47,640 I'm so excited. 523 00:26:49,560 --> 00:26:50,640 But... 524 00:26:50,680 --> 00:26:53,320 ..I don't know if she fancies me, you know? 525 00:26:55,160 --> 00:26:58,440 Leah does come across really feminine, 526 00:26:58,480 --> 00:27:02,280 so I want to get to know if she does have a masculine side 527 00:27:02,320 --> 00:27:04,280 to find that physical attraction. 528 00:27:04,320 --> 00:27:07,320 But I'm worried that that won't come. 529 00:27:10,280 --> 00:27:11,320 Fuck. 530 00:27:17,560 --> 00:27:18,680 South Africa! 531 00:27:20,640 --> 00:27:23,360 Whilst our newlyweds continue to honeymoon... 532 00:27:23,400 --> 00:27:26,080 Nelly and I are always pulling each other in for a little cuddle 533 00:27:26,120 --> 00:27:27,440 or a little peck every time we can. 534 00:27:28,560 --> 00:27:30,840 One could say Steven is quite good with his hands. 535 00:27:35,360 --> 00:27:38,800 ..in the Maldives... Oh, would you like a drink of anything? 536 00:27:38,840 --> 00:27:41,120 Just open that fizz, I think. 537 00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:45,160 ..Sarah and Dean are all set for an intimate dinner. 538 00:27:45,200 --> 00:27:47,640 I'm literally a pro. Just don't shake it! 539 00:27:48,880 --> 00:27:51,040 The vibe with Sarah right now is kind of weird. 540 00:27:53,520 --> 00:27:55,920 No, but can you just face it over that way? 541 00:27:55,960 --> 00:27:59,520 INTERVIEWER: 542 00:28:03,600 --> 00:28:07,280 Get some tattoos and lose some weight, maybe. 543 00:28:07,320 --> 00:28:09,520 Where do you see our relationship going? 544 00:28:09,560 --> 00:28:13,360 I see it, like, going back to the UK for a little bit. 545 00:28:13,400 --> 00:28:14,560 HE LAUGHS 546 00:28:14,600 --> 00:28:18,440 However, the longer that the honeymoon has gone on for, 547 00:28:18,480 --> 00:28:20,120 and even in the last couple of days, 548 00:28:20,160 --> 00:28:22,200 there's certain traits of his personality 549 00:28:22,240 --> 00:28:24,160 that are beginning to grate on me. Woof. 550 00:28:24,200 --> 00:28:25,920 Don't, no. That wasn't a real bark. 551 00:28:25,960 --> 00:28:27,680 I know, but it was the joke, though. 552 00:28:30,320 --> 00:28:32,080 I should be completely honest... 553 00:28:40,960 --> 00:28:42,880 OK sharing a bed with me yet, then? 554 00:28:42,920 --> 00:28:44,320 Yeah. 555 00:28:44,360 --> 00:28:47,880 Grace and Ashley are waking up in Thailand. 556 00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:50,040 Before the flight yesterday, I was actually in two minds 557 00:28:50,080 --> 00:28:52,360 about whether I should even get on the flight. 558 00:28:55,280 --> 00:28:58,160 I know Ashley framed it as a compliment that he respected me more 559 00:28:58,200 --> 00:29:00,400 for not sleeping with him on the first night, 560 00:29:01,560 --> 00:29:04,120 but it did just feel judgmental of women who might have done that. 561 00:29:04,160 --> 00:29:05,200 Yeah. 562 00:29:07,040 --> 00:29:09,800 100%, I've learned already in this process 563 00:29:09,840 --> 00:29:13,160 that the things I say aren't necessarily the things I mean. 564 00:29:13,200 --> 00:29:14,600 Grace, she's a really, really nice girl 565 00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:16,880 and I'm looking forward to getting to know her better. 566 00:29:16,920 --> 00:29:21,240 I just, I've almost felt like everything I was doing was wrong. 567 00:29:21,280 --> 00:29:23,040 I know I always mean well. 568 00:29:24,280 --> 00:29:26,440 I've known in my head what I meant, 569 00:29:26,480 --> 00:29:28,960 but then, like, when I've tried to explain it, 570 00:29:29,000 --> 00:29:30,760 it's not always come out right. 571 00:29:30,800 --> 00:29:32,160 When you were saying like, 572 00:29:32,200 --> 00:29:34,520 "Oh, I really want a lady", I was like, what? 573 00:29:34,560 --> 00:29:35,880 But then I've contradicted myself 574 00:29:35,920 --> 00:29:38,480 because from the very beginning, I said I want a tomboy Barbie. 575 00:29:43,240 --> 00:29:45,480 Oh, God, I've done it again, haven't I? Put my foot in it. 576 00:29:48,160 --> 00:29:50,000 Why am I not allowed to like that? 577 00:29:50,040 --> 00:29:52,400 You know she's like, kind of like a cartoon? 578 00:29:52,440 --> 00:29:55,120 She's not like an actual shape of an actual woman. Yeah. 579 00:29:55,160 --> 00:29:58,120 Ash keeps saying some really outlandish things, 580 00:29:58,160 --> 00:29:59,480 and they trigger me. 581 00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:05,160 It's just, it's more of a saying than... 582 00:30:05,200 --> 00:30:08,280 But don't you think we should move away from that saying? 583 00:30:08,320 --> 00:30:10,080 Oh, fuck. 584 00:30:12,960 --> 00:30:15,400 I feel like I'm going to be burned at the stake by the end of this! 585 00:30:17,480 --> 00:30:19,840 I just don't love that you're so specific, 586 00:30:19,880 --> 00:30:23,840 that you're so like, you can't have sex on the first date. 587 00:30:23,880 --> 00:30:26,560 Gorgeous, but also not too gorgeous. 588 00:30:27,640 --> 00:30:29,160 I don't know where it comes from sometimes, 589 00:30:29,200 --> 00:30:30,880 but every now and then he just says something, 590 00:30:30,920 --> 00:30:33,040 and I think, like, "Do you know how that sounds?" 591 00:30:33,080 --> 00:30:35,960 I feel like I can't say... Barbie's got, like, big ol' boobies, 592 00:30:36,000 --> 00:30:38,200 little tiny waist, like, long blonde hair. 593 00:30:38,240 --> 00:30:39,560 They're my preferences. 594 00:30:41,800 --> 00:30:44,640 I'm allowed just as much as the next guy to have my kind of list 595 00:30:44,680 --> 00:30:46,000 and know what I want. 596 00:30:47,360 --> 00:30:48,920 If you don't have it or you're not that person, 597 00:30:48,960 --> 00:30:50,760 then you're not right for me. 598 00:30:50,800 --> 00:30:52,960 I'm not saying you have to be that. 599 00:30:53,000 --> 00:30:54,360 It's just a saying. 600 00:30:56,000 --> 00:30:57,040 It's offensive. 601 00:31:08,880 --> 00:31:10,600 Hand in pocket over there. 602 00:31:10,640 --> 00:31:12,200 Have you seen she's got pockets in her dress? 603 00:31:12,240 --> 00:31:13,600 She's got loads of rocks in there. 604 00:31:13,640 --> 00:31:15,920 "Rocks"! Are you spiritual, by the way? 605 00:31:15,960 --> 00:31:18,640 Yeah, I am a bit, yeah. Oh, OK. "A bit." 606 00:31:18,680 --> 00:31:21,160 What was that stone you gave her? A quartz. A rose quartz, yeah. 607 00:31:21,200 --> 00:31:22,720 Aw. Where did you put it? 608 00:31:22,760 --> 00:31:24,960 You haven't got it in your dress. No, you took it back off me. 609 00:31:25,000 --> 00:31:26,040 Oh, she's lost it already. 610 00:31:26,080 --> 00:31:27,880 Oh, no, it's upstairs. That's fucking promising, isn't it? 611 00:31:27,920 --> 00:31:30,680 Have you got my rose quartz? 612 00:31:30,720 --> 00:31:32,200 Oh, now she's concerned. 613 00:31:33,440 --> 00:31:37,240 Oh, no. I can't think where it is. I've definitely got it somewhere. 614 00:31:37,280 --> 00:31:38,640 I don't want to lose it. She'll kill me. 615 00:31:39,720 --> 00:31:41,760 Lovely. Just look towards the camera. 616 00:31:41,800 --> 00:31:42,800 Look down the lens. 617 00:31:43,960 --> 00:31:47,600 Perfect. How do you, like, normally identify? 618 00:31:47,640 --> 00:31:49,400 Are you, like, masc, femme, stem? 619 00:31:50,440 --> 00:31:53,080 I don't really identify as anything like that. 620 00:31:53,120 --> 00:31:54,600 I don't know, do you? What are you? 621 00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:56,440 Yeah, I would consider myself more femme. 622 00:31:56,480 --> 00:32:00,360 I've got masculine energy, I guess, but I'm definitely more femme. 623 00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:01,440 Mmm. 624 00:32:03,920 --> 00:32:07,040 Just bring your faces really nice and close together. 625 00:32:07,080 --> 00:32:08,600 No, it's a bit... It's a bit much. 626 00:32:13,440 --> 00:32:15,400 I was going to ask you if you wanted to do a kiss as well, but... 627 00:32:15,440 --> 00:32:18,720 Probably not. I got the cheek today, so no. Yeah. Sorry. 628 00:32:22,600 --> 00:32:24,240 Don't fancy it, even a little one on the cheek? 629 00:32:24,280 --> 00:32:28,840 No. It's even weirder... Yeah? The push, you know? 630 00:32:28,880 --> 00:32:31,200 You've asked five times now. 631 00:32:31,240 --> 00:32:32,800 I know. She's fiery! 632 00:32:32,840 --> 00:32:35,040 I got a little bit of a shock. 633 00:32:35,080 --> 00:32:37,320 Leigh has definitely got a fiery side. 634 00:32:37,360 --> 00:32:39,120 I was like, all right. 635 00:32:40,800 --> 00:32:41,840 Are we good? 636 00:32:54,480 --> 00:32:57,120 I can't wait till I see how this unravels. 637 00:32:57,160 --> 00:33:01,640 I really think it's got potential. They're going to get along 100%. 638 00:33:03,600 --> 00:33:05,040 What is your normal type? 639 00:33:05,080 --> 00:33:08,560 My normal type is normally, like, quite masculine, actually. 640 00:33:08,600 --> 00:33:10,920 Yeah. I gauged that before. 641 00:33:10,960 --> 00:33:12,040 Why, what gave that away? 642 00:33:12,080 --> 00:33:15,120 You said something like, "What do you go by?" Masc, fem, stem. 643 00:33:15,160 --> 00:33:16,880 I don't really know about labels. 644 00:33:16,920 --> 00:33:19,640 Yeah. Like, I would never be like, "I'm a bisexual" or "I'm straight." 645 00:33:19,680 --> 00:33:22,040 You know what I mean? I'm just like, for me, it's the connection. 646 00:33:22,080 --> 00:33:25,120 Physical attraction definitely can grow. 647 00:33:25,160 --> 00:33:27,080 She needs to get outside of her head. 648 00:33:27,120 --> 00:33:30,640 We need to be open and try and push ourselves. 649 00:33:30,680 --> 00:33:32,120 Are you a bit high-maintenance? 650 00:33:32,160 --> 00:33:34,320 Not like... I think you've got a little bit of it. 651 00:33:34,360 --> 00:33:35,800 I've seen a little bit of the fiery side already. 652 00:33:35,840 --> 00:33:38,520 Because of the... Yeah. Why, what happened? 653 00:33:38,560 --> 00:33:41,920 So they said, like, oh, can we kiss? And Leigh was like, 654 00:33:41,960 --> 00:33:44,640 "No, I've already said once, I'm not doing it." 655 00:33:44,680 --> 00:33:46,600 What is the reason you don't want to kiss? 656 00:33:46,640 --> 00:33:47,960 I'm a bit of a slow burner. 657 00:33:48,000 --> 00:33:51,800 I don't rush things or, like, do things when I'm not ready. 658 00:33:53,600 --> 00:33:55,640 I was going to say 659 00:33:55,680 --> 00:33:58,880 that's a conversation I wanted to have with you, like, early on. 660 00:33:58,920 --> 00:34:00,760 I'd appreciate if you respect my boundaries. 661 00:34:02,440 --> 00:34:06,200 What are your boundaries? I recharge by having my own time. 662 00:34:06,240 --> 00:34:09,840 What? I just might need, like, a couple of hours to myself. 663 00:34:11,840 --> 00:34:13,920 She's already said she wants her own time already. 664 00:34:16,080 --> 00:34:17,440 I'm in for a great old night. 665 00:34:20,440 --> 00:34:21,800 Obviously, we're here for a marriage, 666 00:34:21,840 --> 00:34:23,760 but how are we actually meant to get to know each other 667 00:34:23,800 --> 00:34:26,280 if we're not together and spending time together? 668 00:34:29,080 --> 00:34:31,920 Have you got any concerns? Is there any, like, red flags? 669 00:34:31,960 --> 00:34:33,840 She goes for really masc girls. 670 00:34:33,880 --> 00:34:35,360 So I'm not her type. 671 00:34:35,400 --> 00:34:39,200 You're not used to someone being like, "You're not my type." 672 00:34:39,240 --> 00:34:41,320 Why don't you just get a number one all over? 673 00:34:41,360 --> 00:34:42,560 I might have to. 674 00:34:42,600 --> 00:34:45,400 The sexual attraction isn't there. 675 00:34:45,440 --> 00:34:49,400 We can look past that, because based on listening to her friends 676 00:34:49,440 --> 00:34:51,320 and just the general vibe... Yeah. 677 00:34:51,360 --> 00:34:53,960 ..there's a lot of potential chemistry there. 678 00:34:54,000 --> 00:34:56,600 What I don't want to do is try and force myself 679 00:34:56,640 --> 00:34:59,320 to rush into something and then feel uncomfortable, 680 00:34:59,360 --> 00:35:02,280 and then I pull back and shut down. 681 00:35:02,320 --> 00:35:03,680 Because of my past relationships, 682 00:35:03,720 --> 00:35:05,560 I'm definitely a lot more guarded. 683 00:35:05,600 --> 00:35:09,680 Family and friends think there's a lot of fundamentals between us 684 00:35:09,720 --> 00:35:11,520 that align, but I don't know. 685 00:35:11,560 --> 00:35:14,200 What I overheard when you were chatting on the table 686 00:35:14,240 --> 00:35:15,240 was that she needs three hours 687 00:35:15,280 --> 00:35:16,800 when she gets home from work or was that...? 688 00:35:16,840 --> 00:35:19,640 Yeah, she likes to have her own time. 689 00:35:19,680 --> 00:35:21,880 That might be a challenge in this process, 690 00:35:21,920 --> 00:35:22,920 because you're not going to have 691 00:35:22,960 --> 00:35:24,440 that three-hour period away from each other. 692 00:35:24,480 --> 00:35:26,400 You're not going to have that, so she may struggle. 693 00:35:35,760 --> 00:35:38,760 Cheers to us. To opening up. Yeah. 694 00:35:40,400 --> 00:35:42,120 IN FRENCH: 695 00:35:42,160 --> 00:35:44,760 Sorry, I'm just a bit flushed. That's all right. 696 00:35:44,800 --> 00:35:46,600 So we should definitely work 697 00:35:46,640 --> 00:35:50,800 on talking French much, much, much more. Does that make you happy? 698 00:35:50,840 --> 00:35:52,640 It makes some part of me happy. 699 00:35:54,160 --> 00:35:55,200 OK, fine. 700 00:35:56,640 --> 00:35:59,040 There is an unreal amount of sexual tension 701 00:35:59,080 --> 00:36:00,400 between Davide and I, 702 00:36:00,440 --> 00:36:02,400 but we promised that we will wait 703 00:36:02,440 --> 00:36:04,960 before we are intimate with one another. 704 00:36:05,000 --> 00:36:07,840 Just make sure that that emotional trust is just completely there. 705 00:36:07,880 --> 00:36:09,360 I thought we were happy to wait. 706 00:36:11,520 --> 00:36:13,800 I said I was happy. I didn't say it wasn't hard. 707 00:36:13,840 --> 00:36:17,720 I'm dying to be intimate with Keye. Not going to lie. 708 00:36:17,760 --> 00:36:20,440 But I want to build up the tension a little bit more. 709 00:36:20,480 --> 00:36:23,720 I know things have gotten a little bit frisky, 710 00:36:23,760 --> 00:36:25,880 but we have stopped each other a lot. 711 00:36:25,920 --> 00:36:29,560 No-one wants to get intimate in 30-odd degree heat. 712 00:36:29,600 --> 00:36:32,120 It's unbearable. 713 00:36:32,160 --> 00:36:36,440 I'm already a profuse sweater. Can you imagine? 714 00:36:36,480 --> 00:36:38,040 It would be like a slip n slide. 715 00:36:44,280 --> 00:36:48,280 It doesn't feel like we've met each other less than a week ago. 716 00:36:48,320 --> 00:36:50,480 Yeah, just taken aback by it. 717 00:36:50,520 --> 00:36:54,560 Bamboo rafting with Nelly, it's been so romantic. 718 00:36:54,600 --> 00:36:56,560 Couldn't have expected any more beautiful person 719 00:36:56,600 --> 00:36:59,000 looking across from me. Do you think we're a bit delusional, 720 00:36:59,040 --> 00:37:02,360 just being in our own little bubble about how good it is? No. 721 00:37:02,400 --> 00:37:05,240 I'm having the best time with Steven. 722 00:37:05,280 --> 00:37:08,040 Honestly, it's everything I could have asked for. 723 00:37:08,080 --> 00:37:09,440 It's too good to be true. 724 00:37:09,480 --> 00:37:10,960 I kind of don't want to get back. 725 00:37:11,000 --> 00:37:14,920 So you're wanting more, basically? Um, how did you guess? 726 00:37:22,360 --> 00:37:24,240 Cheers to today. Absolutely. 727 00:37:27,720 --> 00:37:30,640 I'm having a really good time. It's been an amazing time. 728 00:37:30,680 --> 00:37:33,400 A couple more days, we'll be back in the UK. 729 00:37:33,440 --> 00:37:34,840 I've never lived with a guy before. 730 00:37:35,880 --> 00:37:38,000 Honestly, I'm a bit nervous. 731 00:37:39,640 --> 00:37:43,000 I think it's just going so good and we're having such a good time. 732 00:37:43,040 --> 00:37:45,400 But I'm waiting for something to happen, 733 00:37:45,440 --> 00:37:47,040 which I know is not great. 734 00:37:47,080 --> 00:37:51,000 Um, just a little bit cautious of it sort of crashing down around us. 735 00:37:52,120 --> 00:37:54,200 What scares you in this marriage? 736 00:37:56,480 --> 00:37:59,240 So I've only had, like, three relationships. 737 00:37:59,280 --> 00:38:01,960 Um, they were all unfaithful. 738 00:38:04,200 --> 00:38:05,520 It's such a big trigger for me. 739 00:38:05,560 --> 00:38:07,560 And I think, honestly, if you had, 740 00:38:07,600 --> 00:38:10,400 I just don't see how it could work, me and you. 741 00:38:10,440 --> 00:38:12,520 I would just be thinking, "Red flag, 742 00:38:12,560 --> 00:38:14,320 "what am I getting myself into?" 743 00:38:14,360 --> 00:38:18,600 Look, living together could pose us challenges. 744 00:38:20,440 --> 00:38:22,080 But... 745 00:38:22,120 --> 00:38:24,640 ..I've never cheated. Yes! 746 00:38:26,440 --> 00:38:30,160 Honestly, do you know how much better that makes me feel? 747 00:38:30,200 --> 00:38:32,000 Like, that is great. 748 00:38:34,680 --> 00:38:38,680 I am so, so glad. It just really reassured me. 749 00:38:38,720 --> 00:38:41,760 Right now, it's tick, tick, tick and he's not putting a foot wrong. 750 00:38:41,800 --> 00:38:43,240 I can only show you in actions. 751 00:38:43,280 --> 00:38:45,640 Like, words mean nothing until I actually prove the point. 752 00:38:45,680 --> 00:38:47,160 Honestly, that makes me feel so much better 753 00:38:47,200 --> 00:38:49,440 that you said you've never cheated on anyone. 754 00:38:49,480 --> 00:38:50,600 That's such a big relief. 755 00:39:01,560 --> 00:39:03,440 BICYCLE BELL RINGS 756 00:39:03,480 --> 00:39:05,880 So, how are you finding everything so far? 757 00:39:05,920 --> 00:39:07,400 Yeah, it's a lot more intense 758 00:39:07,440 --> 00:39:09,720 than I thought it was going to be. Can't lie. 759 00:39:09,760 --> 00:39:11,480 This process is proving difficult. 760 00:39:11,520 --> 00:39:13,080 I thought it was going to be easy. 761 00:39:13,120 --> 00:39:15,280 I expected it would just run swimmingly. 762 00:39:15,320 --> 00:39:18,560 Where are we going now? Ooh! Secret gardens. 763 00:39:18,600 --> 00:39:20,280 This is beautiful, isn't it? 764 00:39:20,320 --> 00:39:22,520 I'm willing to speak to Sarah and tell her how I'm feeling, 765 00:39:22,560 --> 00:39:23,760 because that's how you go forward. 766 00:39:25,600 --> 00:39:28,440 Oh, hello. Hello, Vera. 767 00:39:28,480 --> 00:39:29,480 HE CHUCKLES 768 00:39:31,160 --> 00:39:32,600 She was saying hello to us. 769 00:39:34,160 --> 00:39:35,200 Can't ignore her. 770 00:39:38,120 --> 00:39:39,960 Thai Basil. Didn't work. 771 00:39:41,280 --> 00:39:42,320 Sometimes they don't work. 772 00:39:43,440 --> 00:39:47,280 Dean making the herb jokes, it's not helping the situation. 773 00:39:47,320 --> 00:39:48,400 It's becoming an ick. 774 00:39:51,200 --> 00:39:52,240 Oh. 775 00:39:53,360 --> 00:39:54,920 Yeah, it's nice here, though. 776 00:39:54,960 --> 00:39:57,160 Pretty mint, if you ask me. Stop that. 777 00:39:57,200 --> 00:39:59,120 Please, honestly, just stop. 778 00:40:01,960 --> 00:40:04,200 If I'm honest, like, yesterday was a lot for me. 779 00:40:04,240 --> 00:40:06,360 That was probably the hardest day I've had personally. 780 00:40:08,360 --> 00:40:10,760 I found myself going back to being that fat kid at school, 781 00:40:10,800 --> 00:40:13,680 you know, that didn't get the girls and wasn't very popular. 782 00:40:13,720 --> 00:40:15,000 It didn't sit easy with me at all. 783 00:40:15,040 --> 00:40:17,640 I was like, "I'm so, so past that", or I thought I was so past that. 784 00:40:19,160 --> 00:40:20,640 I think it was, like, the rejection. 785 00:40:20,680 --> 00:40:22,680 Like, it feels a little bit of rejection, isn't it? Oh, God. 786 00:40:22,720 --> 00:40:25,240 And I think the more I'm getting to know you, obviously, 787 00:40:25,280 --> 00:40:26,400 the more I am liking you. 788 00:40:27,560 --> 00:40:30,120 But I also don't want to get hurt. 789 00:40:32,360 --> 00:40:35,400 From your point, like, would it be any different if I wasn't as big? 790 00:40:35,440 --> 00:40:36,800 Because obviously, I haven't always been. 791 00:40:40,360 --> 00:40:41,400 Um... 792 00:40:42,600 --> 00:40:46,280 The last thing I want to do is upset him, but I have to be honest. 793 00:40:50,520 --> 00:40:51,560 Probably... 794 00:40:54,440 --> 00:40:58,120 ..I think there maybe would be more of that attraction, 795 00:40:58,160 --> 00:41:00,000 sexual chemistry. Um... 796 00:41:01,280 --> 00:41:02,920 ..sorry. OK. 797 00:41:04,440 --> 00:41:06,240 I want to be open and transparent with you. 798 00:41:06,280 --> 00:41:09,040 I don't want to hide anything or pretend. Yeah, yeah, yeah. 799 00:41:14,520 --> 00:41:15,560 Are you OK? 800 00:41:19,840 --> 00:41:23,520 Hearing Sarah say that did hurt my feelings. 801 00:41:23,560 --> 00:41:24,560 Yeah. 802 00:41:27,120 --> 00:41:29,240 Just remember, I'm also a prize. 803 00:41:31,320 --> 00:41:32,560 Like, I am what I am, innit? 804 00:41:35,520 --> 00:41:36,880 The attraction's just not there. 805 00:41:51,160 --> 00:41:53,840 LOCAL GREETINGS 806 00:41:55,680 --> 00:41:58,240 Isn't this the dream, though? Oh, yeah. It's unreal. 807 00:42:00,160 --> 00:42:01,560 Oh! 808 00:42:01,600 --> 00:42:03,520 DAVIDE LAUGHS 809 00:42:10,720 --> 00:42:14,400 I'm just really not sure how I'm feeling about Ash at the moment. 810 00:42:14,440 --> 00:42:16,080 I'm not impressed with him. 811 00:42:16,120 --> 00:42:19,280 The comment that was said just caught me right at the wrong time. 812 00:42:19,320 --> 00:42:22,880 But waking up today, I am trying to have a different mindset. 813 00:42:22,920 --> 00:42:25,760 I have to keep reminding myself it's only been a couple of days, 814 00:42:25,800 --> 00:42:27,240 and I need to have an open mind. 815 00:42:31,280 --> 00:42:33,040 INSTRUCTOR: Good one! 816 00:42:34,240 --> 00:42:35,760 King of Muay Thai. 817 00:42:35,800 --> 00:42:40,360 Is it doing it for you? Yeah. Woo! Hubba hubba. 818 00:42:40,400 --> 00:42:41,600 Go! 819 00:42:42,800 --> 00:42:45,560 Wait. One... Ah! Good one. 820 00:42:45,600 --> 00:42:47,640 Is he allowed to do that? 821 00:42:47,680 --> 00:42:51,160 Ashley, he obviously has to touch. 822 00:42:51,200 --> 00:42:54,200 On top of the way I was feeling, 823 00:42:54,240 --> 00:42:55,960 trying to make it, like, flirty and fun, 824 00:42:56,000 --> 00:42:57,720 it just made me clam up a bit. 825 00:42:57,760 --> 00:42:59,280 One-two! 826 00:42:59,320 --> 00:43:02,240 The more pressure I feel to be affectionate 827 00:43:02,280 --> 00:43:04,280 with someone that I'm really unsure about, 828 00:43:04,320 --> 00:43:07,400 the less likely I am to be affectionate. 829 00:43:07,440 --> 00:43:09,800 Come on. You're teaching me about all this equality stuff. 830 00:43:09,840 --> 00:43:10,880 Let's go. 831 00:43:10,920 --> 00:43:12,200 HE LAUGHS 832 00:43:13,240 --> 00:43:16,320 Yikes! Oh, I'm not really feeling it. 833 00:43:16,360 --> 00:43:17,440 Come on, then. Sorry. 834 00:43:17,480 --> 00:43:19,560 Come on, I feel like you've got more in you than that. 835 00:43:19,600 --> 00:43:21,000 I'm actually just don't want to. 836 00:43:21,040 --> 00:43:22,080 I'm not loving it. 837 00:43:23,200 --> 00:43:24,240 It's OK. 838 00:43:25,640 --> 00:43:28,600 I'm just confused. I'm trying to be me, but I'm not sure... 839 00:43:28,640 --> 00:43:31,080 I feel like everything I'm doing is wrong, 840 00:43:31,120 --> 00:43:32,880 and I don't know why. 841 00:43:32,920 --> 00:43:37,440 Sure you're OK, though? Yeah. No, I'm good. Yeah? Mm-hm. 842 00:43:37,480 --> 00:43:38,480 Yeah. 843 00:43:38,520 --> 00:43:41,280 People have told me that marriage is hard. 844 00:43:41,320 --> 00:43:44,560 I think I just... I don't think it needs to be this hard. 845 00:43:48,640 --> 00:43:49,680 You OK? 846 00:43:51,160 --> 00:43:53,840 I think, um, it comes so naturally to you 847 00:43:53,880 --> 00:43:56,800 to be, like, flirtatious and, like, tactile, 848 00:43:56,840 --> 00:44:00,200 but I wasn't really expecting it in, like, a Muay Thai session, 849 00:44:00,240 --> 00:44:02,080 so I just think I felt a bit awkward. 850 00:44:02,120 --> 00:44:03,920 I think I got a bit overwhelmed. 851 00:44:04,960 --> 00:44:07,200 Did you just feel like I was coming on a bit strong? 852 00:44:07,240 --> 00:44:11,280 I'd love to just work on, like, the friendship part first. 853 00:44:11,320 --> 00:44:12,800 Right. OK. 854 00:44:14,400 --> 00:44:16,360 Ultimately, I'm in here for... I know. 855 00:44:16,400 --> 00:44:19,160 ..a different reason than friendship, so, yeah, look, 856 00:44:19,200 --> 00:44:21,480 I want to be friends and that, but... 857 00:44:21,520 --> 00:44:24,120 ..it's like we're here, like, we've signed up 858 00:44:24,160 --> 00:44:26,240 to marry a complete stranger in an experiment, 859 00:44:26,280 --> 00:44:29,160 and it's kind of working at a marriage rather than a friendship. 860 00:44:29,200 --> 00:44:31,000 Yeah, I do get that. 861 00:44:32,120 --> 00:44:34,160 It's like I already kind of feel like... 862 00:44:34,200 --> 00:44:35,720 Like we are running slow. 863 00:44:35,760 --> 00:44:39,600 Like, flirting, I don't see as, like, a big jump. Yeah. 864 00:44:41,320 --> 00:44:44,040 To be fair, we are married. 865 00:44:44,080 --> 00:44:45,920 I think I just... I'm a bit in my own head. 866 00:44:45,960 --> 00:44:48,000 OK. 867 00:44:48,040 --> 00:44:50,240 I hoped it would be a bit easier, 868 00:44:50,280 --> 00:44:52,600 but I have struggled in this process. 869 00:44:52,640 --> 00:44:54,760 It's way harder than I thought it was going to be. 870 00:44:54,800 --> 00:44:56,200 Sorry. Don't apologise. 871 00:44:56,240 --> 00:44:59,440 We're still getting to know each other. Exactly. Yeah. 872 00:44:59,480 --> 00:45:02,960 I'm definitely outside my comfort zone as someone's wife. 873 00:45:03,000 --> 00:45:05,840 I kind of wish I was a bit more open-hearted 874 00:45:05,880 --> 00:45:09,520 in the way that he is, but it's still early days. 875 00:45:09,560 --> 00:45:13,960 I'm committed to the process, so baby steps from here. 876 00:45:15,600 --> 00:45:17,520 Yeah, thanks for understanding. 877 00:45:19,640 --> 00:45:22,000 Going into today, Grace and I had a tough time, 878 00:45:22,040 --> 00:45:23,920 but I do appreciate that she's trying. 879 00:45:23,960 --> 00:45:26,440 Do you maybe want to go for a walk on the beach or something? Yeah. 880 00:45:26,480 --> 00:45:29,440 She wants to move at her own pace, and I'm more than happy to do that. 881 00:45:29,480 --> 00:45:32,280 I understand that friendships make the best marriages. 882 00:45:32,320 --> 00:45:34,800 I'm just hoping that we build a connection from here. 883 00:45:51,440 --> 00:45:55,240 Thank you. I am really excited for my final dinner. 884 00:45:55,280 --> 00:45:58,400 My breath is taken away. Like, it's magical. 885 00:45:58,440 --> 00:46:01,440 Every part of this trip is an absolute dream, yeah. 886 00:46:01,480 --> 00:46:04,360 I...I am lost for words. 887 00:46:04,400 --> 00:46:05,720 For once? 888 00:46:06,760 --> 00:46:08,320 This is amazing. 889 00:46:08,360 --> 00:46:10,400 And I'm so happy I'm doing it with you. Same. 890 00:46:12,280 --> 00:46:16,520 I adore spending every single minute of every day with you. 891 00:46:16,560 --> 00:46:18,840 Um, and I felt the connection 892 00:46:18,880 --> 00:46:21,520 from the moment I walked down the aisle 893 00:46:21,560 --> 00:46:23,560 and you grabbed my hands and told me it was going to be OK. 894 00:46:23,600 --> 00:46:25,120 I just... 895 00:46:25,160 --> 00:46:27,800 I couldn't appreciate you more in any way. 896 00:46:29,080 --> 00:46:30,120 Same. 897 00:46:33,640 --> 00:46:37,080 You've opened up a lot to me. You make me feel really comfortable. 898 00:46:38,480 --> 00:46:40,760 You are my person. 899 00:46:40,800 --> 00:46:44,520 And I'm 100% falling for you. 900 00:46:49,240 --> 00:46:52,880 I feel completely and utterly the same way. I am... 901 00:46:52,920 --> 00:46:54,520 I am completely besotted with you. 902 00:46:55,800 --> 00:46:59,880 You're honestly just, yeah, perfect in every way. 903 00:47:01,280 --> 00:47:02,560 I'm going to kiss you now. Is that OK? 904 00:47:02,600 --> 00:47:05,760 I would... I'd hate if you didn't. Perfect. 905 00:47:13,360 --> 00:47:15,920 Davide and I have definitely found our groove, I think. 906 00:47:15,960 --> 00:47:17,480 When it comes to communication, 907 00:47:17,520 --> 00:47:18,760 it was a little bit stunted at the start, 908 00:47:18,800 --> 00:47:23,920 but only because I was so scared to do that vulnerability aspect. 909 00:47:23,960 --> 00:47:25,320 But since I've done that, 910 00:47:25,360 --> 00:47:27,400 I think we've grown from strength to strength. 911 00:47:29,040 --> 00:47:32,200 He's just everything. Yeah, he's... 912 00:47:33,800 --> 00:47:36,320 Yeah. I understand why people write love songs. 913 00:47:45,080 --> 00:47:46,480 I'm sad it's our last evening. 914 00:47:46,520 --> 00:47:48,320 It has been such a perfect honeymoon. 915 00:47:48,360 --> 00:47:49,520 The honeymoon has been 916 00:47:49,560 --> 00:47:51,680 literally everything and more I could have asked for. 917 00:47:51,720 --> 00:47:55,320 We seem like we're really perfectly suited to one another. 918 00:47:55,360 --> 00:47:58,080 I'm really hoping that it's not just that we're in the honeymoon bubble, 919 00:47:58,120 --> 00:48:00,960 but I honestly feel really, really lucky and fortunate. 920 00:48:01,000 --> 00:48:05,280 From the moment I saw you to now, the word is just "wow" in general. 921 00:48:06,480 --> 00:48:10,440 Where the hell have you been for 34 years of my life? 922 00:48:10,480 --> 00:48:12,320 Couldn't thank the experts enough on that. 923 00:48:12,360 --> 00:48:14,840 I don't know what to say. Don't you cry on me. 924 00:48:14,880 --> 00:48:19,080 No, no, no. No tears, no tears. But that was really nice to hear. 925 00:48:19,120 --> 00:48:20,640 So, this being the last night... 926 00:48:24,320 --> 00:48:25,920 That is so cute! 927 00:48:31,680 --> 00:48:35,120 I love that. I actually can't wait to put that in the apartment. 928 00:48:35,160 --> 00:48:38,320 When is this from? The first bottle we popped. 929 00:48:38,360 --> 00:48:40,560 As if you kept that. That's so sweet. 930 00:48:40,600 --> 00:48:42,280 That's so nice! 931 00:48:42,320 --> 00:48:44,120 Thank you. 932 00:48:46,320 --> 00:48:49,240 Really surprised at Steven with all those little keepsakes. 933 00:48:49,280 --> 00:48:50,440 It's really reassuring, 934 00:48:50,480 --> 00:48:52,480 because sometimes I can't gauge whether a guy likes me or not. 935 00:48:52,520 --> 00:48:55,640 I'm like, it just makes me think he likes me too. 936 00:48:55,680 --> 00:48:57,080 Not used to it. 937 00:48:57,120 --> 00:49:01,600 Thank you so much for just being an incredible husband so far. 938 00:49:01,640 --> 00:49:03,520 My honeymoon with Nelly - absolutely amazing. 939 00:49:03,560 --> 00:49:05,800 Emotionally, we're connecting very well, 940 00:49:05,840 --> 00:49:08,240 and looking forward to what's to come. 941 00:49:08,280 --> 00:49:10,760 Here's to the apartments and life. Yes! 942 00:49:19,160 --> 00:49:21,720 How are you feeling? Good, relaxed. 943 00:49:21,760 --> 00:49:24,480 Glad to be back and chilled. Yeah. 944 00:49:26,800 --> 00:49:28,560 So I wanted to ask you a question. Mmm? 945 00:49:31,040 --> 00:49:32,560 How would you feel... 946 00:49:34,760 --> 00:49:36,920 ..if... 947 00:49:36,960 --> 00:49:42,000 ..we spent this evening on our own? 948 00:49:44,280 --> 00:49:46,600 What the hell is she doing? 949 00:49:48,560 --> 00:49:52,200 Not exactly how I thought the first night would go after a wedding. 950 00:49:53,240 --> 00:49:54,240 So weird. 951 00:49:55,280 --> 00:49:56,320 Cool. 952 00:49:57,360 --> 00:49:58,400 Sweet. 953 00:49:59,560 --> 00:50:02,080 OK. I'll see you out. Oh, thanks! 954 00:50:03,120 --> 00:50:04,760 Do you want me to help you with your case? 955 00:50:04,800 --> 00:50:07,040 I didn't always plan on staying apart 956 00:50:07,080 --> 00:50:09,120 from whoever I ended up marrying. 957 00:50:10,280 --> 00:50:12,680 Obviously, Leah wasn't really what I was expecting. 958 00:50:14,800 --> 00:50:16,120 Have a lovely sleep. 959 00:50:16,160 --> 00:50:17,840 I respect her boundaries. 960 00:50:17,880 --> 00:50:20,720 However, I think if it continued throughout the process, 961 00:50:20,760 --> 00:50:22,080 I'd be like, "Nah, I'm gone." 962 00:50:28,120 --> 00:50:29,240 Next time... 963 00:50:29,280 --> 00:50:31,600 Marriage to me means everything. 964 00:50:31,640 --> 00:50:33,480 More brave singles... 965 00:50:33,520 --> 00:50:35,520 I'm extremely nervous. 966 00:50:35,560 --> 00:50:37,680 ..take the ultimate gamble on love. 967 00:50:39,040 --> 00:50:40,800 There's an instant spark for some. 968 00:50:40,840 --> 00:50:42,160 It's love at first sight. 969 00:50:42,200 --> 00:50:44,400 Hope the horse doesn't shit on my dress. 970 00:50:44,440 --> 00:50:46,760 But one bride's unconventional arrival... 971 00:50:46,800 --> 00:50:49,960 Can't believe she's on a horse. Hiya, darling. You all right? 972 00:50:50,000 --> 00:50:52,200 I thought you wear, like, black for a funeral. 973 00:50:52,240 --> 00:50:53,480 ..and party spirit... 974 00:50:53,520 --> 00:50:56,080 If it was rose, I'd be on my second bottle by now. 975 00:50:56,120 --> 00:50:57,920 ..ring alarm bells for her groom. 976 00:50:57,960 --> 00:51:00,720 What are you like when you're drunk? Argumentative. 977 00:51:00,760 --> 00:51:03,040 I'm not 100% sure that Maeve's my type. 978 00:51:03,080 --> 00:51:05,040 Do you reckon you can do it? Yeah. 979 00:51:05,080 --> 00:51:07,600 And as the honeymoons continue... 980 00:51:07,640 --> 00:51:09,360 I love Thai food, don't you? 981 00:51:09,400 --> 00:51:11,880 ..while Grace and Ashley turn a corner... 982 00:51:11,920 --> 00:51:13,480 Yes! 983 00:51:13,520 --> 00:51:15,440 I thought we'd go to the top of the mountain. 984 00:51:15,480 --> 00:51:17,640 Right. ..Leigh and Leah's troubles... 985 00:51:17,680 --> 00:51:20,640 Leah, I'm not excited. You are. 986 00:51:20,680 --> 00:51:22,280 ..hit new heights. 987 00:51:22,320 --> 00:51:24,480 No, this is not fun for me. 988 00:51:24,520 --> 00:51:28,840 She doesn't understand the severity of things until it gets too far. 989 00:51:28,880 --> 00:51:30,640 Good? Just give me two secs. 990 00:51:30,680 --> 00:51:32,920 I've ballsed up, haven't I? 991 00:51:32,960 --> 00:51:35,240 LEIGH SNIFFS 992 00:51:59,000 --> 00:52:02,560 Subtitles by Red Bee Media